Yes, I said it.
When people say "I love Boki, she doesn't judge" It makes me smile because I'm not judgmental about the things expect me *or people in general* to be.
I really don't care about if he's gay or if she's a "slut"
I honestly can't understand our obsession with people's sex lives. As long as it's between consenting adults and no one is being hurt emotionally *cos physical pain might be your thing*, why do I care what people are doing with their reproductive organs? Is it my toto??
I am judgy about a lot of other things though.....
Grown Gossipy men
I am all about equality between the sexes and I am a card-carrying feminist but I draw the line at grown men acting a fool. You know the ones I'm talking about, don't you? The ones either on social media or in real life who jump on every bit of gist and want to know details. The ones that are actually shameless enough to ask/tweet for background info on a tweet fight. Guys, you have no clue how unattractive that is. Women expect their men to be above some things or at least pretend to be. Trust me when I tell you it isn't a good look...
The inappropriate Commenters
These ones I feel like knocking their heads . I'm not being sexist but it's mostly men. Bros, why on earth do you think it's okay to comment on a chicks picture with a lewd emoji or say something like "I can bury my head in your chest forever" or "see those boobs, kai, if i catch you ehhhn" It's even worse when it's married men. Why leave yourself AND your family open to being insulted? Be a pervy fool all you like in private but don't come and shame the poor woman who has to deal with you in the public of igwe mmadu. She most certainly didn't sign up for that.It goes back to the point I keep making...would you ever in your life walk up to me, and just spit that shit out? When you aren't drunk or high??
"You look great", "Wow", "That's a lovely outfit" even "Damn, you are hot"are nicer, more appropriate ways to voice your admiration out in public to someone especially when y'all aren't cool like that. Biko fix up In saying that, there's also the chicks who come on your page and say stupid things like "na wah o, it seems like everyday is cheat day" or "ah, you seem to be getting fairer o" Bitch, take several seats and sit yo ass DOWN!!!
The Lax Parents
You know the ones that let their children get away with EVERYTHING??? From not greeting older people to being rude to the help to throwing tantrums in supermarkets...
I've been told "Wait till you born your own" which I think is a bag of horse shit.
A badly behaved child says a lot about you as a parent. I may not have a child but I have 4 nieces and 2 nephews ranging from 7 months to 9 yrs old. It's not cool that you haven't taught your child the basic principles of being a decent human being like treating people with respect and saying "good afternoon", "thank you" and "please" You might think you are being cool and sophisticated now but believe me when i tell you that there can NEVER be anything cool about an ill-bred child.
The Name droppers
I don't really have to expand on this, do I?
Yeah, you know "famous"people....have a cookie.
Every other sentence is "When I and *insert any "celeb"name here* went to ________" or "I used to be close to *insert again* till they made it big, now to even reply my text is a problem"
The Fuck Boys/Girls
You know the ones who leak nudes or post screen munched conversations that are meant to be private on social media??? Yeah, those are called fuck boys and girls. Those are really scum in my opinion and I judge them without any reservations.
The Reluctant Complimenters
These ones can't bring themselves to actually pay you a compliment without throwing in some shade....You know the ones that will say something like "kai, you have lost a lot of weight o but see how all your bum has gone" or "you really looked nice in that outfit but I'm really not sure that colour is for you" Errrrrrrrrrrm......make up your mind. It's either I look good or I don't.
The Scandal Enthusiasts/Curators
These ones seem to know EVERYBODY'S gist!!!
They are the first to shout and comment when some scandal comes out about someone. You know the ones that will say things like "I wonder if LIB has heard this gist"*knowing fully well that she searches the internet for her name* so you just gave her the gist..Duh
They are the ones that know who *insert female celebrity name* used to kpox when she was just up and coming and wont hesitate to mention it at the slightest whiff of a scandal. They are most likely the "anonymous"that comment on gossip blogs and give the "full gist" on everybody. Hissssssssssssssssss
I could go on and on but then I'd just sound like a sour old lady. Lol!!
So tell me, what are you judgy about? I promise not to judge you.. MWWAAAAAAAAAHHHHHH