See ehhhhhn, Q is one of my favorite people because she’s undeniably mad and really doesn’t need any one to tell her…
It’s funny that I have probably one of my most personal “in bed with….” with the craziest person I know.
Go figure..
We talked about religion, mental health and relationships *with a bit of twerking in between *
We sha had fun and I hope y’all enjoy watching us.





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  1. Oye April 13, 2016 at 1:05 pm Reply

    Haha she goes to my gym! I love you Boki!!!

    • Boki April 15, 2016 at 9:26 am Reply

      Now when you see her looking serious, you can laugh because you know she’s a crazy bat. Thanks for stopping by dear ? ? ? ?

  2. Princess April 13, 2016 at 1:18 pm Reply

    I must confess I don’t (or didn’t?) like Q. But I really enjoyed her brand of crazy in this video. She looks like one of those crazy people with a very serious face so you never see it coming.
    Okay soo.. I actually believed the world revolved around me until I had a baby. With that came some natural type of growth. I’m more patient, more tolerant, less afraid, more understanding, more able to laugh at the situation (when you literally pick up shit with your bare hands, you realize that your life is a joke and you laugh at everything), I tend not to overthink issues anymore, I have less expectations now, I’m less self-absorbed, less entitled.. when all of this growth was happening, I had no idea it’d be fantastic for my relationships. I mean, I was just growing naturally. Then of course, this growth started to apply in my relationships and I’m like OH MY GOD! This is what/how I should have done it all those years. I’m in a beautiful relationship now and my man thinks I’m perfect. He has no idea what fire I’ve had to go through to come out this way. But yeah, that’s my story.

    • webmaster April 13, 2016 at 9:58 pm Reply

      Q is special. To know her is to love her. Lol!!
      Thank you sooooo much for sharing. I’m happy you found growth and I’m sure your partner is a very lucky man to have you.

  3. Mimi April 13, 2016 at 1:24 pm Reply

    She wanted to spill tea and you stopped her!!! Why???! *sigh* I was about to click that search button on IG! Ohhhh! Yes! I like hearing gist long as it’s not about my loved one.

    Lol I thought I was loco but hey! Here’s Q, she’s proven me wrong.

    I also don’t believe in organised religion but I go to church etc. Just started a prayer book as well, I know I cannot be catholic, husband-to-be is Catholic and I have said BIKO NU plix! I can’t be one. But the weight I feel and joy from going to church only started in Oct 2012 when I went to chase one man in church (you know I don’t have shame) but then life changed lol didn’t end up with the man but met love of my life months later.

    Depression- been there but then I got out of it by asking myself “the people that I am here sad about, are they sad about me? Are they stuck in bed too and cant go and earn money?” all answers led to No so I decided, keyword- DECIDED to remain happy.

    What I had to work on myself- my trust issues. Cause of that I could not commit.
    What was sabotaging- I wasn’t emotional enough (igbo demon complaints lol)

    Enjoyed it.

    • Boki April 15, 2016 at 9:29 am Reply

      You and gist ehhhhhn!!!
      You forget that the people you want to hear their gist also have loved ones. Check am na. Gotcha!!!
      I still adore you though ????

  4. Maxine April 13, 2016 at 6:26 pm Reply

    Loooool! That was fun.
    Q is consistently bubbly (read: craze pesin) and a straight shooter.
    This series is really where you shine f’real. So we need to get lights and sound equipment ASAP! ??
    As for what to work on as regards myself? Approach, boundaries and trust I’d say. And I’m learning to say NO especially to the people closest to me.
    But that’s about it because I’ve learned in a HUGE away like you said to choose what I want in terms of what I give & what I get.

    • Boki April 15, 2016 at 9:31 am Reply

      She’s insane but I adore her!!!
      Saying NO has been a constant issue for me as well but I’m learning small small. Thanks babe ? ? ? ?

  5. chiny April 13, 2016 at 11:23 pm Reply

    Finally!!!! I wasn’t expecting this much calmness and “serious” conversation because Q…
    What was that Igbo twerk about , nne?

    This video was the bright light in my very very long day

    • Boki April 15, 2016 at 9:32 am Reply

      Na real “igbo twerk”!!! Lol!!
      I’m happy you enjoyed watching us.

  6. Ade April 14, 2016 at 12:04 pm Reply

    Hi Boki!

    I share your sentiment about Church. I really do not like going to Church and I get so much flak about it considering I still live at home. I go occasionally especially during certain seasons of the Church calendar, but otherwise, I’m drifting away during service. I think when this fuel issue is sorted, I’ll just dress up on Sundays and drive around. Thankfully, we attend different Churches. Even my choice of Church is still an issue. Apparently, until one is a firebrand Christian, one is really not a Christian. They’re gonna be praying for my soul.

    OMG! I am so in agreement with you about living separately or having a separate bedroom!!! I think that’s the only way I can tolerate being married, if ever. Have you ever come across the concept of ‘Living Apart Together’?

    Working on being patient. As for sabotaging relationships, let’s just say I’m deliberate in my choice of men that I know are not a good fit because I don’t care for the relationships to last anyway. I’ve been described as a flight risk and can’t even deny it. I begin to get antsy after a while.

    PS: I’m shy to send that email. Maybe I’ll wait till I run into you.

    • Boki April 15, 2016 at 9:24 am Reply

      Haba!! After tantalizing me with the thought of free booze and possibly fun company??? Tsk Tsk

      • Ade April 15, 2016 at 9:54 am Reply

        LOL! Okay okay free booze, but I cannot guarantee you fun company sha. I see you even qualified it already.

  7. Eky Shirley April 14, 2016 at 12:05 pm Reply

    That twerk looks better in real life Q…. Apparently u love dancing a lot.
    Real, honest and refreshing… as expected.
    I’m working on trying to achieve a middle ground; it’s always all or nothing; too much or too little. And I’m beginning to appreciate my own space as well as other people’s a lot more….
    Boki, am still chuffed from your response to my last comment o. Bless you big and err……..

    • Boki April 15, 2016 at 9:23 am Reply

      That twerk nwu nno nonsense!! She’s a goat. Lol!!
      I wasn’t lying in my last comment to you. I really appreciate you. Thank you sooooo much hon. ? ? ?

  8. MrBure April 14, 2016 at 3:11 pm Reply

    I am so glad you did this. Shebi you called me a national problem the other day? Q is clearly a regional problem. Like a sub-Saharan African region-sized problem.

    And what the devil was that twerk???

    • Boki April 15, 2016 at 9:21 am Reply

      Passing the buck, huh??

  9. CheRox April 18, 2016 at 1:36 pm Reply

    Depression: Many Nigerians suffer from all sorts of mental health issues, depression is so common in these parts, I recognize it in so many people. People would rather pray away the depression than deal with their actual issues.

    Regarding a while, 2 years is a while to be dating. I don’t advise it really unless you’re okay with amosu sucking away your life.

    Queue, download the rest of this his house, you don’t love me gist offline biko

  10. Vivian April 18, 2016 at 4:06 pm Reply

    This is the first In Bed Episode I am watching and I honestly think you need to get a bed on (inter)national TV.

    Random: I was so chuffed to hear you say ust Negodu… Lmao. I’ll be back when I finish the video.

  11. Tosin April 18, 2016 at 4:49 pm Reply

    First time here and I’m hooked

  12. Tee October 11, 2016 at 5:36 pm Reply

    I have just watched the video and mehnnn of course that’s my sis right there I love her crazy you’ve just got to love que. Booking your guys did justice. I felt better just watching this video. Let’s say it took me farther away from depression ..

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